Coping versus completion.

The last few months i believe the system have been making a subconscious decision to move from coping for the sake of coping to completion. For as many years as i know the system have listened and believed it when people have said they never complete on things and that all they will ever do is cope. In fact Acantha was perfect for the system in the fact that she herself wasnt interested in the systems healing but in her own agenda. So the system fell easily back into believing all they were good for was just getting by.

This seems an easy thing to do all their life they have been reminded on how stupid and useless and painful to be around they were. Their confidence fell to the bottom and resulted in such insulation that it was easy for Acantha to penetrate and take them back down to a place of despair. It has only been through a series of self discovery that the system have learnt that the old messages from the past are simply that the past. As their confidence has grown so too is the understanding that the more things that they complete on the less they have to just cope and the more they understand that coping isnt what gets you through peace through completion does.

This same completion is bringing about numerous benefits to the system. it has created confidence that has never been seen before in their lives. it has reminded them that they arrent the useless human beings and that the more they finish one thing the more they grow in their own stature. they are finding completion removes scars. That the hard work with Rachel and previously Mr Wonka has resulted in scars and wounds closing, the need to cope with pain isnt so necessary and the understanding that the old coping mechanisms arent so needed anymore.
Perhaps even the fist dawning that not all alters will have to do the same job and their own understanding that without a reason for being in the system anymore is enough for them to start thinking about integration or blending.

Coping gets you by, its a useful tool if the other options have run out but it also drags you down. it saps you of natural energy the same energy you could be using to complete things. Coping is certainly a lot harder work than completion. Completion brings satisfaction, a sense of well being and hope. Recently i have also been observing the system letting themselves go. From being someone who worried a lot about what people thought of them to people who stand up and say you know what it really doesnt matter to me. Completion brings that self confidence. I am watching the benefits of moving away from self absorption in complete healing. I know this will take a while yet but i also know the benefits that are coming because of it.

lightening.