Monday, November 29, 2010

Cult initiated alters a therapy session and more.....

Today for the first time since we have been seeing Rachel a cult loyal alter came to talk But far from the drama that entailed when they saw Acantha this was a normal everyday therapy session. Probably if im quite honest it was a bit toey for us who were waiting to see how Rachel dealt with such a hardened alter. At times i felt the darkness in her glowing like a beacon and wanted to pull her back swiftly but each time the inner voice that i choose to call god told me to leave it and let her talk.

And talk she did, no swooping demons came descending no talk of the cults gonna get us not doom and gloom no nothing. Life has gone on, the alters life has gone on. We havent had attack or crap like we used when an alter would talk with Acantha, instead we have had pondering on how to help an later who is trapped in time with an entity inside her. And wisely i have asked pastor noel for advice. this is when we need spiritual advice. But Rachel asked such an important question today. What advice would you give someone when dealing with such a controlled alter as she isSo Johnny wrote a list of his answers

Soul and faith

Never feed the alter into darkness more than she already is. In other words always concentrate on light. For example what do you do in the daytime or what do you think fo light or do you like light. Ive foudn for myself that one moment of hearing an alter describe light often is a sign that there is hope, for those who ahve never seen light it gives you an idea of how far the darkness has stretched and even if an alter has ever even seen light. i.e they may have only seen night as that is when they came out and day time for them doesnt truly exist.

If an alter is squirming and showing signs of distress comfort and ground.

Dont stop asking questions and leave silence as it seems to provoke an already antagonistic alter. Im not sure why but i think its more to do with cult training and feeling threatened by silence.

Dont ignore her story because it may not sit true with your beliefs or ideology. Sure a lot of people think that spirits are a load of crock but in cult alters they not only believe it but have lived it and often have entities living in them.

Just cause you cant see it dont mean its not true.

Always remember no matter how they look they are simply people of circumstance, that need as much healing as the next one.

Dont ask a question if you think you might be shocked at the answer. The cult often use many methods to make sure a alters story looks unbelievable.

Dont minimise a cult observant alters feelings because often if you can find true feelings its the one spot that can we worked on the fastest.

Dont get mad if they repeat over and over a phrase or slogan, like today this alter kept saying im bound by law. Remember years and years of programming has been put in to place to keep the loyalty there. Perhaps say is there \another word in that sentence that you can change so it sounds different but it can still mean the same thing. Changing one words stops the programming and alters the alters thought patterns. Simple but true.

Never underestimate the terrible wound these alters are hiding beneath all the bravado and training. The more loyal they are the more they usually have been subjected to.

And lastly always remember the tougher you are the more they will move away and never talk again. In a cult initiated alter the only person to speak authority to them is their master/teacher no one has that right.

obviously these are just my observations but i am one who has stopped following cult practices and laws and know what it took for me to get free.

Johnny

3 comments:

  1. Deshanti and Johnny, great post. Amazing work allowing, tolerating and accepting the insider that shared with Rachel today. Huge growth. Johnny, well said, wise info, and very practical. I will be passing your list along to another friend of mine with DID. Thanks so much for choosing to share.

    -one of us

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  2. Here listening and sending you safe hugs....

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